{"id":2673,"date":"2021-05-13T21:54:22","date_gmt":"2021-05-13T19:54:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pipol10.pipolcongres.eu\/2021\/05\/13\/desirdenfant-veronique-pannetier\/"},"modified":"2021-05-13T21:58:54","modified_gmt":"2021-05-13T19:58:54","slug":"childesire-veronique-pannetier","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pipol10.pipolcongres.eu\/en\/2021\/05\/13\/childesire-veronique-pannetier\/","title":{"rendered":"Childesire \u2013 V\u00e9ronique Pannetier"},"content":{"rendered":"

Experience: If you type \u201cd\u00e9sir d\u2019enfant\u201d (\u201cchild\u2019s desire\u201d) on Google<\/em>, you will instantly come across a website of the same name, announcing a \u201cFree Fair for Parenthood and Fertility\u201d\u00a0[1]<\/a> on 4 and 5 September 2021 in Paris. Against the background of the blue-grey gaze of an exquisite baby, you can read: \u201cSpecialists, advisers, products<\/em>, reliable information and support to help<\/em> you<\/em> found or expand your family\u201d all gathered in one place. This is followed by the logos of the many organisms that sponsor and invest in this fair towards candidates for \u201cparenthood\u201d: from specialised clinics in assisted reproductive technology to laboratories selling fertilising products, from sperm banks to egg donation clinics. It is noted that the fair is \u201cpurely informative and non-commercial\u201d, a statement in the form of denial that presides over this list of partners, from which an association that proposed coaching in \u201cparental project\u201d by videoconference recently disappeared.<\/p>\n

This is a first in its kind in France. Is this one more step, taken by the strange desire for a child? This desire, that used to be enigmatic has suddenly become a right. The weight of religion has always designated it as a duty. Capitalist society, fueled by the rampant progress in scientific techniques, transforms it into a right to have. As Dominique Laurent notes in her preface to the work of our colleague Catherine Vacher-Vitasse \u201cthe child projected by these techniques has become not only a desire object (objet de d\u00e9sir<\/em>), but also that of a legally admissible demand from medical authorities if the desire is hindered by nature\u00a0[2]<\/a>. She adds that one can expect to see an increase in claims for \u201cPre-Implantation Diagnosis\u201d (PIR) to choose the sex of the child, or the selection of gametes for assumed performance as is the case in many countries considering the child produced as in a market economy\u00a0[3]<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Procreation, says C. Vacher-Vitasse, \u201cdoes not mean desire for a child, even if confusion is maintained in the centres of medical assistance for procreation\u201d\u00a0[4]<\/a> and her book \u00c9nigme du corps f\u00e9minin et d\u00e9sir d\u2019enfant<\/em>, gives us many striking clinical moments, delicately collected, and enlightening us on the question posed by the PIPOL Congress.<\/p>\n

The child as from the birth of psychoanalysis, has been recognised by Freud as articulated to the feminine desire. He says that for some women \u201cin the child which they bear, a part of their own body confronts them like an extraneous object, to which, starting out from their narcissism, they can give complete object-love\u201d\u00a0[5]<\/a>. The child is already offered as a narcissistic trap in 1914 and our modern age does not mitigate this in any way, as the agonies of narcissism have spread in many forms.<\/p>\n

The desire for a child, like all desires, includes a part of enigma. Why does it suddenly emerge? Why now? Why with this partner? Or without one? What does it promise to us? This Parisian event titled \u201cD\u00e9sir d\u2019Enfant\u201d (\u201cDesire for Child\u201d) promises to erase these abounding questions by replacing them by one only: how to make? It tries to solve the question of desire, albeit promoted in the title, as a desire uncontaminated by the slightest doubt, which is more a matter of project than of desire strictly speaking, as a \u201cdesire in kit\u201d. The child, the baby, then becomes the trap representation of all feverish expectations, giving consistency to an ideal, perfect object, which would come at the right time.<\/p>\n

The techniques are not to be incriminated here, but perhaps we can question the purpose of this highway of information that constitutes this fair for parents in the making…<\/p>\n

Nowadays, the child are more seldom an \u201caccident\u201d, but rather a deliberate effect, in our rich societies transformed by the progress of science. A happy mutation or a disturbing modernity? Probably neither the former nor the latter… Each parl\u00eatre<\/em> (speaking being), <\/em>whether he arrived in the world by a stork or whether his personal prehistory is lodged in an ice alveolus, will occasionally question the desire that presided over his coming into the world and how this desire has extended its shadow over his own…<\/p>\n

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Translated by Bogdan Wolf<\/em><\/p>\n

Proofreading: Nad\u00e8ge Creusot<\/em><\/p>\n

Photography: \u00a9B\u00e9atrice Pettiaux<\/p>\n

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[1]<\/a> Salon gratuit de la Parentalit\u00e9 et de la Fertilit\u00e9<\/em>.<\/p>\n

[2]<\/a> C. Vacher-Vitasse. \u00c9nigme du corps f\u00e9minin et d\u00e9sir d\u2019enfant<\/em>, N\u00eemes, Champ social \u00c9ditions, 2018, p. 16.<\/p>\n

[3]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>, p.\u00a018-19.<\/p>\n

[4]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>, p.\u00a088.<\/p>\n

[5]<\/a> Freud, \u201cOn Narcissism: An Introduction\u201d, 1914, trans. J. Strachey, SE Vol 14, p. 89-90.<\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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