{"id":2871,"date":"2021-05-27T20:16:53","date_gmt":"2021-05-27T18:16:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pipol10.pipolcongres.eu\/2021\/05\/27\/quoi-de-plus-normal-que-dinfliger-la-vie-nathalie-crame\/"},"modified":"2021-05-27T20:25:24","modified_gmt":"2021-05-27T18:25:24","slug":"what-could-be-more-normal-than-to-inflict-life-nathalie-crame","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pipol10.pipolcongres.eu\/en\/2021\/05\/27\/what-could-be-more-normal-than-to-inflict-life-nathalie-crame\/","title":{"rendered":"What could be more normal than to inflict life? \u2013 Nathalie Crame"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cWhat could be more normal than to inflict life? ?\u201d is the title of Oriane Lassus\u2019 comic strip[1]<\/sup><\/a>. This comic strip, with its sometimes coarse text and deliberately crude drawings, raises questions about the desire, or not, to have a child. With a free tone tinged with a second degree, she deploys an intimate, physical, existential and societal reflection. Over the course of the boxes, she gives us a glimpse of the many remarks, all of which being judgements made in the heat of the moment, that the heroine receives in return for her \u201cno kids\u201d position, indicating how difficult it is for some people to think that a woman can choose not to have a child. With her pen dipped in the black ink of irony, Oriane Lassus draws the supposed evidence of the desire for children.<\/p>\n

On the contrary for Harriet and David, young couple conceiving life only through the birth of children, it is so obvious! They want to have a large family! They have \u201cruled out the idea of the pill. They had found it terribly fake to interfere with the Nature\u2019s process!\u201d[2]<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n

With \u201cThe Fifth child\u201d, Doris Lessing gives us a powerful novel bordering on science fiction, a way for her to tell us a family story of horror after the birth of a fifth child resulting from an abnormally difficult pregnancy. The author describes it strikingly in the following passage: \u201cWhen a dose of some sedative immobilised the enemy \u2013 that was how she perceived this brute in her body now \u2013 for an hour, she took the opportunity to sleep… Sometimes it seemed to her that hooves were tearing at her intimate flesh, or even claws.\u201d[3]<\/sup><\/a> This child becomes for his mother an alien as much as a foreigner with whom she will have to live. The happy family turns upside down, the couple distances itself, while the mother oscillates in a trying solitude between hatred and tenderness, fear, impotence and guilt. It is true that Ben is abnormally large, voracious and aggressive. He causes discomfort and anxiety in his family and provokes the rejection by others. The child\u2019s brutality will end in terrorizing the whole family, leaving the mother in a terrible dilemma: to look after Ben and let the other four children down or to place Ben in a home.<\/p>\n

As we can see, giving life remains a question, sometimes a fight, a struggle or even militancy. You can discover this in the testimony of Annick Delvigne, head of the Assisted Reproductive Technology department at the \u00ab\u00a0CHC Montl\u00e9gia\u00a0\u00bb Clinic in Li\u00e8ge, who was one of the pioneers of Assisted Reproductive Technology in cases of homoparentality in Belgium. This interview conducted by our colleagues Marie Br\u00e9mond and C\u00e9line Danloy, as well as the texts that Ombilic brings you each week, lead us to PIPOL 10 which is fast approaching!<\/p>\n

Bibliography<\/a><\/h3>\n

\u201cA friend of mine, who knows my theory of dreams and has told his wife of it, said to me one day: \u2018My wife has asked me to tell you that she had a dream yesterday that she was having her period. You can guess what that means\u2019. I could indeed guess it. The fact that this young married woman dreamt that she was having her period meant that she missed her period. I could well believe that she would have been glad to go on enjoying her freedom a little longer before shouldering the burden of motherhood. It was a neat way of announcing her first pregnancy.\u201d<\/a><\/p>\n

Freud S., The Interpretation of Dreams, 1900, trans. J. Strachey, SE 4, p. 126.<\/p>\n

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Photography: \u00a9Swoboda Fr\u00e9d\u00e9ric – www.swoboda.be<\/a><\/p>\n

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[1]<\/sup><\/a> Lassus O., Quoi de plus normal que d\u2019infliger la vie<\/em>, Lyon, Arbitraire, 2016,<\/p>\n

[2]<\/sup><\/a> Lessing D., Le cinqui\u00e8me enfant<\/em>, Paris, Albin Michel, 1990, p. 131, (\u201cThe Fifth child\u201d, 1988, Jonathan Cape),<\/p>\n

[3]<\/sup><\/a> Ibid., <\/em>pp. 60-61,<\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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